So I started asking around to see if any of the kids knew where my bowl was. It didn't take long. "It's in the freezer Mom." Of course!!!! Why didn't I check there? I opened the freezer in the garage and there was my bowl……filled with hailstones!!! Doesn't everyone keep a giant bowl of hailstones in their freezer? We brought the bowl in the house and Olivia ran a little water over the outside to loosen the hailstones from the bowl. They had melted slightly before being frozen and now they were frozen in a chunk inside the bowl. I thought maybe they would take the icy blob outside and play with it and watch it melt. But no…it had to be carefully placed in a kitchen garbage bag and put back in the freezer to await next summer. That is when they want to take it out and play with it.
So how did hailstones end up in my freezer?
Jerry and I regularly plan fun activities for our family to do together, but sometimes, the unplanned, spur of the moment fun that we enjoy together seems to be the most memorable. I think every member of our family will fondly remember enjoying that hailstorm together more than any trip to the swimming pool or zoo.
I am reminded of a story that Dallin H. Oakes told in his October 2007 conference address entitled, "Good, Better, Best." He told of a father who took his family on a series of summer trips to different historical sites. When he asked his son which of the trips had been the most fun for him, his son answered that his favorite summer memory was the time that he and his Dad laid out under the stars and talked.
Elder Oaks wisely concludes,
"Super family activities may be good for children, but they are not always better than one-on-one time with a loving parent."
Quality time with brothers and sisters, Mom and Dad are the key to strengthening family relationships and building beautiful memories.
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